Why am I suffering like this?
Barry Lawrence - Pastor of Adult Ministries of Discipleship
What is the purpose of suffering? Or more specifically, what
are the purposes of suffering in our lives as followers of Jesus Christ? We
know that suffering is a way of life and believers are not exempted. Suffering
touches our lives in many different ways.
I recently had lunch with a Christian brother from another
church to catch up with what was going on in his life. He shared with me
various long term health issues, car problems, and updating me on continued
health problems of his wife.
Most of us have heard about the suffering Jim Kelly,
Buffalo’s Hall of Fame quarterback who is also a committed Christian, is
facing. His oral cancer has returned with a pain-filled vengeance. He is facing
more surgery and humanly the prognosis isn’t good.
Joni Erickson Tada has suffered most of her life after a
diving accident as a teenager. Paralyzed from the waist down, she has continued
to experience pain and limitations along with recently contracting breast
cancer. In her excellent book co-authored with Steve Estes, When God Weeps: Why our suffering matters to
the Almighty, she lists a number of possible reasons for suffering and
trials in our lives.
Below is the list. Look it over, go to the passages, and
remember that in the midst of pain and suffering, God is at work in your life
and the lives of others.
- Suffering
is used to increase our awareness of the sustaining power of God to whom
we owe our sustenance (Ps
68:19).
- God
uses suffering to refine, perfect, strengthen, and keep us from falling (Ps
66:8-9; Heb
2:10).
- Suffering
allows the life of Christ to be manifested in our mortal flesh (2 Cor 4:7-11).
- Suffering
bankrupts us, making us dependent upon God (2
Cor 12:9).
- Suffering
teaches us humility (2
Cor 12:7).
- Suffering
imparts the mind of Christ (Phil
2:1-11).
- Suffering
teaches us that God is more concerned about character than comfort (Rom
5:3-4; Heb
12:10-11).
- Suffering
teaches us that the greatest good of the Christian life is not absence of
pain, but Christlikeness (2 Cor 4:8-10; Rom
8:28-29).
- Suffering
can be a chastisement from God for sin and rebellion (Ps
107:17).
- Obedience
and self-control are the outcome of suffering (Heb
5:8; Ps
119:67; Rom
5:1-5; James
1:2-8; Phil
3:10).
- Voluntary
suffering is one way to demonstrate the love of God (2
Cor 8:1-2, 9).
- Suffering
is part of the struggle against sin (Heb
12:4-13).
- Suffering
is part of the struggle against evil men (Ps
27:12; 37:14-15).
- Suffering
is part of the struggle for the kingdom of God (2
Thess 1:5).
- Suffering
is part of the struggle for the gospel (2
Tim 2:8-9).
- Suffering
is part of the struggle against injustice (1
Pet 2:19).
- Suffering
is part of the struggle for the name of Christ (Acts
5:41; 1
Pet 4:14).
- Suffering
indicates how the righteous become sharers in Christ’s suffering (2
Cor 1:5; 1 Pet 4:12-13).
- Endurance
of suffering is given as a cause for reward (2
Cor 4:17; 2
Tim 2:12).
- Suffering
forces community and the administration of the gifts for the common good (Phil
4:12-15).
- Suffering
binds Christians together into a common or joint purpose (Rev
1:9).
- Suffering
produces discernment, knowledge, and teaches us God’s statutes (Ps
119:66-67, 71).
- Through
suffering God is able to obtain our broken and contrite spirit which He
desires (Ps 51:16-17).
- Suffering
causes us to discipline our minds by making us focus our hope on the grace
to be revealed at the revelation of Jesus Christ (1
Pet 1:6, 13).
- God
uses suffering to humble us so He can exalt us at the proper time (1
Pet 5:6-7).
- Suffering
teaches us to number our days so we can present to God a heart of wisdom (Ps
90:7-12).
- Suffering
is sometimes necessary to win the lost (2 Tim 2:8-10; 4:5-6).
- Suffering
strengthens and allows us to comfort others who are weak (2 Cor 1:3-11).
- Suffering
is small compared to the surpassing value of knowing Christ (Phil
3:8).
- God
desires truth in our innermost being and one way He does it is through
suffering (Ps 51:6; 119:17).
- The
equity for suffering will be found in the next life (Ps
58:10-11).
- Suffering
is always coupled with a greater source of grace (2
Tim 1:7-8; 4:16-18).
- Suffering
teaches us to give thanks in times of sorrow (1 Thess 5:17; 2
Cor 1:11).
- Suffering
increases faith (Jer 29:11).
- Suffering
allows God to manifest His care (Ps
56:8).
- Suffering
stretches our hope (Job
13:14-15).
Suffering is hard, but it is not without the guidance and
purposes of a loving Father.



